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[quote=Anonymous] OP, I'm a 33 year old and married for almost 13 years with kids. I feel for you. You didn't cause this and couldn't have prevented it in this case. Regular sex, still in shape, your relationship overall sounds decent but when you described him as "kind" I disagree. If he was "kind" he would've thought of you and not had the affair. Affairs are a hurtful, misleading and disrespectful. Nobody on this forum can tell you the magical words to save your marriage or if he'll do it again. In a best case scenario, it would be a one time affair that will never be repeated. I recommend counseling only if your DH realizes what he's done wrong because you can't change what you don't acknowledge. Best of luck, OP.[/quote]
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