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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I caught him having an affair, he had a choice the nanny suite or a hotel. You think that is out of line? If he wants to see the kids he should stay in the suite, if he wants to flee the kids go to a hotel.

I never made him stay in the suite, I just would not allow him in my room. [/quote]

This is OP, and yes, I do think it's out of line.  Obviously, so was the affair!  IMO it would be fine if you negotiated with him to stay in the nanny suite otherwise you will leave the home or file for separation or whatever.  In that case, he is agreeing to it because the alternative is worse.  But neither the house nor the kids belong to you alone, so you can't demand that he sleep in the nanny suite if he doesn't want to, nor can you say "if he wants to see the kids, he must...."[/quote]

Leave the home? NOT!  You can be a doormat if you want.

So if your H beat you it would be inappropriate to have him sleep in another room and lock your door? Of course you are rich do you would "just" get s jolted, but not everybody has that option.

What if he has a mental illness, stopped taking his meds and was acting wack?

Your comments are similar to "I never go to bed angry" ... translation, I've never had big problems.[/quote]

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