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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because I respect myself. [/quote]

+100.  My exDH cheated on me relentlessly with every kind of woman under the sun - old girlfriends, co-workers, direct subordinates, domestic escorts, foreign prostitutes, randoms he met online, etc.   He lied and covered up for years.  I found out about a lot of it and had hard proof.  At the time I found out we had 2 small children under age 5.  I thought about staying with him but cheating on him and just using him for a few years until I was in a more stable financial position and then leaving him.  I would have been thoroughly entitled to do so.  Sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

But, frankly, I had way to much self-respect.  He did a lot of awful things to me, but he didn't have the power to turn me into a liar, cheater and manipulator.

The best thing i ever did is get away from him.  People who cheat are messed up.  If you are considering cheating, please see a therapist and deal with your needs in a healthier way, and if you have to get out of your marriage at least have some self-respect and do it with dignity.

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