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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I second the opinion to be truthful if asked. Prepare and practice the shortest, most direct explanation that you can give both verbally and in writing. Be sure to sit up straight and look them right in the eye when you speak about it. Start off by saying "I am a [u]survivor[/u] of domestic violence." If delivered well, you will leave them impressed by your tact, character, and courage.

Maybe something like this...

"I am a survivor of domestic violence. Untangling myself from that abusive relationship was challenging but I did it. Unfortunately, in the course of a particularly difficult exchange where I was forced to defend myself, the police were called and I was arrested. I didn't have the resources at the time to contest the charge and chose to plead no contest and pay a fine in order to put the experience behind me as soon as possible. Now that my personal and financial life is on stable footing, I am currently in the process of getting it [maybe avoid the word conviction, just say "it"] expunged from my record. It will soon be off of my record completely and it has no bearing on my ability to do this job."

Best wishes to you, OP![/quote]

"I am a survivor of domestic violence" is pretty rich when you consider that OP is the one who attacked her ex.[/quote]

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