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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm wondering how some of you were caught, and how your partner handled it.  We're you mad they caught you?

Did they use GPS, software on your phone, or follow you? Did they hire a PI, or have a friend follow you?  Voice activated recorder?

I've had acquaintances on both ends over the years, but I'm thinking with technology it must be harder to get away with it for very long.  [/quote]

I have no idea how my ex-husband found out about my affair. I was out of town at a friend's baby shower and my AP was in the same city for work and we met up. I woke up at 5am in my hotel room to my phone ringing and my husband saying, "Is there anything you want to tell me about what you've been doing and where you are right now?" I'd been trying to muster the courage to tell him that I was leaving him and why I was leaving him, so I just told him that I was having an affair, who it was with, and that I wanted a divorce. I asked him how he found out, and he told me I didn't deserve to know, which he was probably right about.

We had a pretty amicable divorce (one kid, but no money arguments or custody arguments) and maintain a pretty civil relationship now, 10 years later. AP and I stayed together and have been married for 8 years. My ex is getting married this summer and we are invited to the wedding. At the end of the day, I do not regret my divorce at all, but I do regret that I cheated instead of just leaving and starting a relationship with my now-DH free and clear. That is not the sort of person I want to be, and I'm deeply sorry that I hurt and humiliated my ex the way I did. He wasn't a great husband, but he's a good guy who didn't deserve what I did to him.[/quote]

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