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[quote=Anonymous]We don't fight. In a few months, we will be celebrating the 20th anniversary of our first date. We have been married for 16 years. We have had two big fights. The first, I don't remember much about it. The second was shortly thereafter about HOW we fight; what the other person did, how it made us feel, etc. After that second fight we had a couple of long discussions about behavior that upsets us, how we handle it, how we disagree, etc. We both made big efforts to adjust how we addressed differences. We both work hard to discuss things that are bothering us before they become upsetting enough to fight. We both try hard to avoid actions, words, patterns of behavior that will irritate or annoy the other. And we both take the things that do upset us with a grain of salt. We preemptively discuss issues so that they are discussions and not fights. That last fight was 13 years ago.[/quote]
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