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[quote=Anonymous]I think this needs to be addressed outside of the party framework. If your dd is a minion, she has the ability to raise doubts and poke at the queen bee mean girls for why they are targeting this other kid. It doesn't have to be super angry or even super bold. It could be as simple as "why are we dissing her for her clothes again?" "she doesn't look that bad" "i don't think that's what she meant" "what did she do to us? I don't think she did anything so I'm not going to make fun of her anymore." It's amazing, the power of one naysayer/doubter/someone to stop the flow of groupthink in bringing one kid down. I have seen my dd do this and she broke up the dynamic. The queen bee left the group for more popular-butt-kissing pastures and all the targeting broke down. If she's afraid of retaliation, then maybe that's a sign for her to realize maybe those "friends" aren't such good friends after all. Better to learn that sooner than later. [/quote]
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