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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dont believe it's true you can't change people. Sure, not for big things, but yes for little things. However the other partner has to have enough respect for the other one to actually change 2 examples from my marriage. 1. I used to leave water bottles on the table instead of putting them in the sink. Or on the counter to be refilled. Sometimes I'd eveen leave a dish. Pet peeve of DH. He asked me to stop and I made the effort you stop. 2. DH used to leave his clothes on his side of the floor instead of in the hamper. Pet peeve of mine. Asked him to stop (plus a couple reminders) and he doesn't do it anymore. [b]If he's not willing to put the minimal effort[/b] into cleaning up after making a sandwich, [b]he doesn't have much respect for you[/b] [/quote] Correct. and Don't blame adhd here, this is simple, basic stuff. don't raise your kids this way either. [/quote]
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