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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] This is great advice. [b]Our marriage also survived an affair, but my DH was 200%[/b] in to fix it afterwards and had none of the ambivalence you've described, OP. This is a little worrisome, but not entirely unusual in emotional affairs and you guys may still find a way. In any case, I am normally all for trying to make it work, but in this case, you need to make sure you are protecting yourself too. As part of our recovery I made DH agree to set aside a large amount of money in an account that only I have access to. It's there as a safety net in case I ever decide to leave. Something to think about. And definitely talk to a lawyer and get to know the household finances in the meantime. You may never need to use this information but you should have it.[/quote] This is so important for you to realize OP. For the marriage to come back from this your husband has to be 200% in it, not just whatever percent into fixing himself. [/quote]
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