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[quote=Anonymous]Surviving Infidelity forums would be a great resource for you. If you want your marriage to survive he needs to be focusing on YOU, not on healing himself. He needs to be doing everything that YOU need from him. Don't make excuses for him. I've been in your exact shoes multiple times with my own partner, it's so so hard. Every time there is a D-Day he will make all the promises of no contact and every time he goes right back to the deceptive ways, sometimes literally the same day. I've also had the exact same feelings that you have about his other woman in terms of not "letting" the two of them be together. It feels like if you don't fight for your marriage you let the other woman in. It's the "pick me pick me" syndrome. I don't know the solution to it yet myself but just know you aren't alone. It's so unhealthy and hard and will eat away at you to feel like this. I hope you find some peace. [/quote]
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