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[quote=Anonymous]OP, i think if you do reach out, you need to go with with reasonable expectations that this may not have a happy ending. In fact, he may send you into a tailspin of hurt. It’s deeply painful to have your father intentionally abandon you for a life of alcohol. My father did it. I saw him a few times after that and he was extremely fixated on himself and didn’t ask me about me- didn’t ask about my kids or where I lived. He did tell me that he used the fact that I had deployed to Iraq to get free beer at the VFW hall. Not sure why he told me that, but he was super proud of himself. It sounds like you want to reach out to him. Truly, you deserve to act on whatever feelings you have. I just caution you that the likelihood that he’s going to be appropriately sensitive to the pain he caused you is low. [/quote]
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