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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry that you are feeling this way! First off, I want to tell you are not a loser. You are a beautiful and valuable woman! You are going through a tough time, but that does not define you. You are not a loser. PPD is a very hard thing to deal with and it has a huge impact physically, emotionally, and mentally. You just had a baby and your body is going through so many changes and some of us have a harder time excepting we may never have the body we once did. Believe me when I say your body is still beautiful, just in a different way now. It did a pretty miraculous thing by growing a baby and housing it for 9 months. Take pride in the body that did that! That's not an easy feat for any woman! 
I'm sorry that your boyfriend treated you the way he did. If he loves you it's not ok for him to be looking at other women. That's incredibly disrespectful to you! I'm also sorry that he added to how bad you were feeling about yourself by telling you to get a boob job. In those moments, you needed compassion and reassurance that you were loved and he was still attracted to you, and unfortunately he did not affirm you the way you needed. He should be understanding too of how you are feeling and all that your body went through. Has he affirmed you in the past? If so, was it always about your body or did he affirm your mind, abilities, and your character as well? Men who really love us affirm all of us, not just our bodies! If the most important thing to him is your body, or looking at other women's bodies, then you may want to reconsider your relationship, to be honest! You deserve someone who is going to love you for you and all you have to offer! You deserve to have someone who will affirm you when you are feeling your weakest, not add to it! I know it's tough. I wish you the best![/quote]

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