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[quote=Anonymous]This is the sort of thing you need to figure out now, if there’s any chance you two will divorce or separate in the future. 
After you separate, it’s probably too late to get complete documentation. My sister even offered to pay for a forensic accountant ($5-10k) but my lawyer said that unless you have a smoking gun (like supporting AP in a condo), he’ll just claim he was paying the kids’ soccer team fees and so on, and you won’t be able to prove otherwise.

So push now to figure out what’s going on. You don’t have to be rude. If you can’t get his W2 as part of the tax return, how about telling him you’re making a family budget—and then do it, in detail for everybody including him. Tell him you ne d the W2 to figure out retirement contributions last year (it’s one of the lines on the W2) because you’re planning for the future or something.

I used to joke to my mom and sister that I didn’t know where XDH’s money went. To his deadbeat brother and sister? (He actually asked at one point if he could support them and I said no, his first obligation out of his GS14 salary was to his own two kids and the deadbeat siblings should get jobs). Did he have a secret love child somewhere? A drug habit that he hid really, really well? Was he squirreling away money in preparation for leaving, which he eventually did?[/quote]

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