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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I agree that you need to treat your postpartum depression and work on becoming comfortable with your body in this state. It took me about a year to "get my body back" fully after my first child was born, and it took more effort than I had to invest before. I understand why you were upset about the Facebook girl issue. To you, his admiration of someone who looks much different than you is confirmation of all your current body insecurity. The thoughts that you are having, however, are likely not grounded in reality. It sounds like your boyfriend realized that you were having a bad time and was choosing not to engage. That's actually a sound strategy because there was no way for him to win this situation. You asked a loaded question. He agreed with you because he thought that's what you wanted. You basically set him up to fail your tests and you know you did this and are now upset.

You can break this cycle, but it starts by getting help for yourself, apologizing for your crappy treatment of him last night, and moving forward.

And PPs who are suggesting that you are stupid for not getting married before having a baby - I say this with all the love in my heart - get bent. Y'all are uptight and rude and not helping a woman who is struggling. You should be ashamed.[/quote]

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