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[quote=Anonymous]He needs to spend time alone with DD. Make plans for the weekend and let him know what time he needs to watch DD. Don’t hire a sitter. Men need alone time with their kids in order to bond and build their parenting confidence. He’ll protest at first, but he’ll get over it. Don’t monitor his interactions with DD. Let him bond with her the way he wants. Yea, at first it may be something stupid like watching tv. Don’t “help” by laying out outfits or preparing meals ahead of time. HE’ll probably screw up things like meals and outfits/getting ready. It’s okay, don’t point it out. He will figure it out on his own eventually. My DH was like yours until I stopped caring about his parenting, made time for myself, and let him do his thing. He was stressed at first but eventually figured it out. Now he adores DD and really regrets that he ever saw her as a chore. [/quote]
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