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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Remember that first and foremost that they love your spouse, and that you do, too! Secondly, know that usually spousal relationships are better when each spouse at least [i]tries[/i] to go along to get along with the in-laws, and this may mean overlooking some serious flaws of theirs (as you may hope that they overlook some serious flaws of yours). Third, know that they love your children, and you do, too! Fourth, remember that they won't be here forever so make the best of what time you have with them. And, finally, know that you cannot control other people, you can only control your reaction to them.[/quote] This is very good- My dear dear SIL tried regularly to remind me that it was they who raised our wonderful DHs. Also, [b]I wish I had thought about how my behavior toward them looked to my children [/b](before it was too late - they are dead in their mid sixties and now my kids don't have grandparents) :( [/quote] Oh, this is a good one. I didn't even think of it but it probably is the best!!![/quote]
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