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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would it be a mistake for me to share this link with my husband? I really think he has no idea how f'ed up this whole thing is and it might help for him to know that people other than me think it's wrong. He will tell me from time to time how much he loves my parents and marvels that they are so nice to him "even though they have no reason to be nice." [/quote] Only you can answer that. Is he ready to be open to discussing the visit? I'm the al-anon poster-- I think he and you would also benefit by just reading about how alcoholism affects families. When you can think of them as having a disease instead of being hateful people, it makes managing the relationship much easier. Some links: https://www.thecabinchiangmai.com/personality-traits-and-characteristics-of-adult-children-of-alcoholics/ http://www.adultchildren.org/lit-Laundry_List#2 http://www.adultchildren.org/lit-ACAIs https://al-anon.org/newcomers/first-steps-al-anon-recovery/ [/quote]
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