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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I know I'm staying in touch for the wrong reasons. I consider him  a catch (obviously) and find it flattering that he wants to spend time and sleep together. I'm touched when he reaches out. It makes me feel nice when he confides in me - as he did the other day when he was telling me about his visit to his family, telling me about how he's feeling. It makes me feel good when he says he'll call me soon.

Wtf is wrong with me??[/quote]

Why did you break up? [/quote]

He realized he didn't want to date someone with kids - I have two. Otherwise we got on quite well. But obv that's a total dealbreaker, and I should value myself more than to deal with someone who feels this way. It just hurts :( [/quote]

Oh no, no, no.  You have to value yourself more.  He needs to go bye bye.  This is his loss, not yours.  There is someone out there.  If you're wasting your time pining for this one, you won't find the right one.  I understand you enjoy his company and you're probably lonely, but this isn't the solution.  You need to find something you enjoy--something that you are obligated to once a week.  I find that signing up for a multi-week course is a great way to meet new people.  You can take a cooking or painting series, learn a new computer software, a new language, a study at your place of worship, a gym class---anything that obligates you out of the house once a week.  You'll do something for yourself and find that meeting new people in general is a great way to avoid the loneliness.[/quote]

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