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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Curious about how people perceive their spouses given all the threads on this forum.

You are: 
Man or Woman: woman
Age: 39
Years Married: 7 years

On a scale of 1 (bad) to 10 (good):

My spouse respects me and appreciates what I contribute to the family: 10
My spouse compliments me / validates me  / expresses appreciation to me: 10
My spouse has a good sense of how I feel and think about things: 7
My spouse is responsive to how I feel / think and supports me: 7
My spouse builds me up and makes me a better person: 5- we make a great team but are very independent in many ways.  He is not my crutch nor am I his.

IMHO You only really need the top two on this list.  I can't believe how lucky we got, especially when I read about the problems on here.  Some of the guys I dated (and almost married) I would absolutely be in the shoes of those unhappy posters, I know it was sheer luck I'm not.  I wish there was a better way to judge compatibility before kids/marriage.  I think many ideas about romance really obscure an understanding of true compatibility. [/quote]

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