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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH won me over with effort. Now married for 10 years with 3 kids. Don’t think I can be in this loveless passionless dead marriage any longer. I am childcare. We talk about child logistics and that’s it. I’m so resentful. I gave up my lucrative career to stay home. DH takes me for granted. I seriously cannot stand my husband and feel totally stuck. Yesterday I told him I want out and he just brushed me off and said he was the best I could do.

I want to run away and restart. Then I look at my children’s sweet faces and can’t leave.[/quote]

Your husband's comment was disrespectful, but --

If you are divorced, the reality is that you are going to be a single mom with three young kids. Beware of the cheerleaders here who will insist that you should divorce and everything will be OK. You might find some guys willing to sleep with you, but it's going to be difficult to find a guy willing to take on that kind of baggage.

It sounds like there are a couple of issues here. Your husband doesn't respect your contributions to the marriage and you are stressed from being a mommy all day. The latter is normal when the kids are young, but I agree with the posters who suggest that you might get a nanny to take some of the load off and maybe focus on getting back into the workforce.[/quote]

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