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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m with the guy that doesn’t think it’s too serious. It really is like going to a strip club (with much worse looking girls). They can’t even see you. It’s purely a monetary transactions. Most women are ok with their men going to a strip club before the wedding, but suddenly cam girls are considered cheating. She actually cheated on him with another dude. She knew his name I assume. I would even assume he knew she was married. 
OP, stop going to cam sites because it’s a waste of money, but I definitely don’t equate it to cheating. Not even close. Cheating is usually about building an emotional connection with someone else. 
Get off your high horses. I’ve seen more “cheating” in office relationships in which people become confidantes [/quote]

Pretty big difference between "going to the strip club before the wedding" and "husband who hasn't had sex with me in years lying about his cam girl habit."

Was she wrong to cheat?  Of course.  And he could have left, no question.  But staying, punishing her (by his own admission) by cutting off sex, starting a cam girl habit, lying about quitting, and going back to it -- this isn't a visit to a strip club in an otherwise healthy relationship.  Maybe his confidence was so shaken by her cheating that he can't get it up with someone in the flesh anymore?  But either way this marriage has been over for a while and he needs a healthier way to cope with that.[/quote]

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