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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with what other people said about having so many different strategies.  It reminded me of the movie Runaway Bride with Julia Roberts,  you have to figure out which of those options is  more authentically you and find the guy that will value that.

From there agree with the person that said to cut bait early if a guy is not a good match and wasting your time.  No point in dating someone that doesn’t want what you want.

Also, it sounds like lots of times the guy doesn’t want to get serious and you do which makes me wonder if you are really screening the guys.  I was dating several guys when I met DH and there wasn’t any guy I wanted to get serious about other than him.  I don’t believe there is one soulmate, but if I were to go out on a date with 20 guys I was attracted to, I can only seeing maybe two would ever get to the point I would think it could be long term. To have the same values, sense of humor,  chemistry, balance between personalities etc, it just doesn’t happen with everyone.  And as part of having the same values, if he isn’t looking for the same things that I am, that makes him incompatible by my definition for me to even think about a long term relationship.[/quote]

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