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Reply to "What am I doing wrong?? My relationships never pan out"
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[quote=Anonymous]If they are interested at first and seem to pull away without any specific reason, I wonder if you are being viewed as a sort of "rebound" relationship, where they are OK with you until they think they can do better? Is there anything about the way you communicate or do that might gradually put people off after a while, but something that's not bad enough to create drama? I realize that's a difficult question to answer. It's hard to really say without knowing you. If you are feeling brave, maybe you could reach out to one of the guys that drifted away to see if he is willing to give you honest feedback? I can understand the logic in being up-front about looking for marriage, but I'd be careful with that. I'm not generally a casual sex kinda guy, but if someone brought up marriage on the first date, I'd run for the hills. Even a man who wants to get married as soon as possible does not want to hear the word "marriage" too soon.[/quote]
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