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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm so sorry :(. I am telling you though, he did you a giant favor. I know you can't see that now but you will one day. You don't miss him, you miss what you thought he was. If you want to get through this and build strength, ask yourself what you weren't willing to see or what you were willing to forgive. There is your answer. [/quote]

Can you expand on the last part?

NP here.  I can answer what I wasn't willing to see it was willing to forgive.  XDH was not husband material.  Fun to date but not to built a life with.  So I made the wrong choice in being with him.  How do I forgive myself and how do I fall out of love?[/quote]

Hi, I mean that the answer as to why he left was probably there all along.  Is he super conflict avoidant?  Is she (the OP)  hard to reason with?  Is he stuck on someone else?  Is he afraid of commitment?  It's there. Most people break up, they don't disappear. If he disappeared then she has to take a hard look at him, and at herself.  That's the hard but necessary part. [/quote]

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