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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can believe Person A is too particular, but Person B is overcorrecting if he/she thinks leaving shards of glass big enough to hold in hand is acceptable. Getting every last barely visible piece of glass is a pain, but a pretty good idea. If I were Person A, I might go a little insane with a partner who thinks leaving some glass is fine, and in turn overcorrect as a result. Maybe you two are doing it to each other.[/quote]

You're dwelling on the example and missing the bigger picture that OP is using this one example to convey.

OP, if the other person is your significant other/spouse, it sounds as if some serious commitment to couples therapy is needed as you're both stuck in a very damaging dynamic. Think hard about what attracted you to this person and what is positive about this person, and weigh carefully whether you and he or she --and you -- will take therapy seriously and commit to changes that will come up in therapy. If Every. Little. Interaction. is like the example, you shouldn't go on without either working on the dynamic behind the problem or working on getting out of the relationship. [/quote]

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