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[quote=Anonymous]This is very disturbing to read and I'm sorry there is such division in your home. Usually these kinds of things happen over a prolonged period of time, so I am wondering what worked its way into your marriage that triggered this distance between the two of you? This is not an issue about the children and the need to control their time, but rather it's more about personal character and how it defines the marriage. It almost appears to be a power struggle and the kids are sure to perceive it as such. They are getting front row seats to observe and learn how not to love a spouse. This climate in the home is setting the stage for the kids to shape their own views of marriage relationships and are now caught in the cross-fire.

The only way you can bring any resolution to this conflict is to expose the heart issue in each of you and what self-righteousness you are clinging to that is being used against the other. Hey I'm all for reading, and quality time, but unfortunately, this dissension is not about reading. It is a battle of the wills, and your children are the ones getting wounded.

If neither of you are capable of change, then ask God to intervene. Begin to pray about the future of your family and the direction your marriage is going in. Ask God to expose the hidden and buried resentments your husband carries around and why. A little bit of forgiveness goes a long way.

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My heart goes out to you. To live under the heavy rule of oppression must hurt you both very badly. But please do not give resentment a foothold any longer. Stop the path of destruction destroying your home. You still have time. God still works miracles.
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