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[quote=Anonymous]It doesn't seem too bad to me for him to assert his own belief that he shouldn't have to enforce rules he doesn't agree with. It's better if you are both on the same page though as it relates to the kids. He should take the child to the therapist and hear it directly from them. Envying someone else's great wife is an insult. What do you do or say when he says things like that? Are your kids old enough you can ask them what they did all day instead of DH? It sounds like he has some resentment and bitterness over something, or that something else is making him in a foul mood like the kids or his job? Just take care of yourself and see if ignoring him helps any. Let his foulness lie with him. Don't adopt it as your problem. You're not worthy of being hated. He needs counseling preferably on his own to reflect on himself. It sounds like you are in a power struggle and that you are enmeshed in a bad way. Try to detach and only deal with him if you really have to.[/quote]
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