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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH hates me but stays because of the kids. Yesterday he told me he didn’t agree to some of the rules I implemented months/years ago (about tv and daily reading) so he doesn’t feel compelled to enforce them if I’m not around. This is directly against what our child’s therapist tells us in terms of the need for consistency.  The day before DH was telling me how he envies his friend’s life and included “great wife” in the reasons.  I had to work yesterday and when I asked about what the kids did all day he told me it’s none of my business. Clearly he can’t stand me but I don’t want to get divorced.  I guess I hope he might change his mind and stop despising me.  Am I deluding myself?  I am spiraling into depression over this.[/quote]

OP I didn’t read the thread so not sure if anyone pointed this out, but what you are describing is emotional abuse. A huge red flag is his comparison of you to his friend’s spouse and using the term “great wife”. This is textbook narcissistic behavior; comparing you to someone else for the purpose of putting you down and making you feel inadequate and bad about yourself. There is nothing in the world that would make me stay with someone like that. Of course you’re spiraling into depression. Life it too short for this shit. [/quote]

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