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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If they're not getting consistent parenting anyway and they're absorbing your husband's disdain for you, why are you staying for the kids? Look, I totally wold stay for the kids if it was a question of no passion or growing apart, but in the case of active hostility no way. Not good for anyone, esp kids. Sadly, they may end up absorbing your husband's disdain of you regardless but at least you can try to give them a stable and nurturing home half the time or so. [/quote]

Yes, this. Sorry, OP.[/quote]

So true. My mother hated my father the last five years of their marriage and the following ten years post-divorce. It was such a culture shock to see how other married parents act. It made me feel like I came from a broken home and wasn't worth of a family unit. Staying in a marriage with that type of underlying issue could really damage the kids inner voice once they realize majority of families act as a team, where as you and DH openly go against each others preferred parenting methods.

Really sorry you're dealing with this OP. It must be incredibly difficult to deal with day in and day out. But you deserve happiness, whatever that may look like for you.[/quote]

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