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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I am fine with having 1 or 2 and adopting if needed. Like I previously stated, I am well aware of the risks, but they are greatly overblown. Women of any age can have complications. Yes, 35 and had increased risks, but it's not as bad as some of you are making seem. I'm in very good health, and I have worked with many women who have had children as late as their 40's. I've also had 3 sets of couple friend who started at 32-35, and had 2-3 in the span of 1.5 - 5 years. My closest friend had her children at 34 and got pregnant with her second at 8 months old. It can happen. [/quote] Ok then why did you ask us?[/quote] +1. If you're only going to hear what you want to hear, not sure why you bothered consulting other people. And yes of course it can. I will tell you that for me, someone who absolutely rly knew I wanted children, "it can happen" would not have been reassuring enough for me. Bottom line is this: I think you will find a lot more people who regret waiting too long than those who regret having children "too soon", particularly if you contain that to 'within the context of a loving happy marriage where both parenteds want kids'. You are the one who has to live with your decision, though [/quote]
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