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[quote=Anonymous]This was me years ago but my (now X) DH left for his AP so I didn't have to make a decision. But I know I would have hung in there for a long time. I would recommend individual and couples therapy. It sounds like you have a lot of anger (understandably!) that can be very hard to "get over" but if you are both 100% "in" and willing to try, I think you can do it. What I don't think you can do is try to stifle it and pretend that everything is fine in order to keep the peace/move forward. You need to deal with this trauma and explore if he's really grown/learned from this such that you can trust him again. [/quote]
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