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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - of course I own the decisions we made, and in reality DH and I have a great partnership. But even though I'm proud of him, I want to have the opportunity to have my own accomplishments, too. I am just as capable! Part of the issue is that we get much more incremental benefit from investing in DH's career over mine, so the cost-benefit calculation never quite fell in favor of my interests. It is what it is - he is white and male, I am neither, and investing in me is just a much bigger risk because people don't see me as competent in the same way.[/quote] And if that was the case you could always have scaled back your lifestyle to support the risk. But if you don't think you're worth it then that's the real problem.[/quote]
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