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Reply to "Married folks: old friend of opposite sex you talk to/text frequently?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it is fine ... most of the time. But there are times in our lives, in our marriages, when we become vulnerable. And to blame it on the friendship with the other gender is just wrong. It is how we deal with that vulnerability -- how we deal with feeling unwanted or unloved or overstressed or depressed or all of the above -- that makes a friendship with the other sex dangerous. And if it comes at the same time that the other person has a vulnerable time, too. Some people can spot those vulnerabilities and turn to their spouse or turn inward and contemplate or get help from a therapist. Others don't know how to deal with their feelings and emotions and turn outward and away from their spouse, and then you have that opening. A friend of the opposite gender is not a danger in of itself. The danger is inside yourself. [/quote] + 1 Perfectly stated, and I totally agree. As such, the risk will vary person to person.[/quote]
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