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[quote=Anonymous]But if you have a dead end job then maybe you didn't focus on academics and making your way up. How does that jive with emphasizing intellect etc? Not enough to be smart and dream up things, need to have the credential, drive, some ambition and perseverance and some luck, but all the other stuff to make that lucky break count and capitalize on that. Being put together with clean, well groomed outside also key. Not focusing on "looks" as in surgery and vanity, but being presentable and the best version of you so you give off the vibe that you can get stuff done. 
I'm not brilliant and not super atteactive. Probably smarter and quicker than many, but nothing dramatic. Also not gorgeous , but decent, well put together and approachable. I've been faking until I make it for a while. Learn as much as I can, read people well and anticipate their needs and now in a good career place, husband and kid. 
A person is the whole package, no reason to ignore one side completely and put all eggs in one basket.  [/quote]

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