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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you nailed it with your own statement that you have to rethink the life you planned, and accept it for what it is/will be - I know from personal experience it is so much easier to say that than to actually feel it, but it is true. For reasons articulated by so many above, your family will still be wonderful - it will just be different than what you planned/expected/dreamed of. To help put in perspective a bit, there are many of us that never even got to have the second child due to unexpected reasons. And I remind myself there are those who never got to have children at all (or to go back further, to find a partner in life, etc.). I do think you are entitled to mourn the loss of what you wanted - esp since it sounds like you are going through a hard time medically now - just please try to remember that you can/do still have a lovely life and family. Thinking of you.[/quote]
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