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[quote=Anonymous]When it started to involve the kids. I dealt with XDH's ADHD and general chaos with few complaints. But XDH was extremely insecure, was incredibly threatened by older DC's academic success (refused to pay for the Ivy although he said he'd pay for an out of state university that cost about the same) and tried his hardest to manipulate younger DC into bombing high school to become the musician XDH always wanted to be. We're talking: telling DC not to bother studying for a class DC had a D in, making DC move mattresses the 2 nights before an AP test, refusing to pay for DC's ACT prep, and so on. When I called DH out on this, he moved out 2 weeks later. Then XDH tried to set up a bachelor pad, bought DC a car and more musical equipment, and told DC they could be roommates with no rules. Guess what, DC was given a choice of whom to live with for the rest of high school and chose me. Anyway, that's a long way of saying that irresponsible, enabling, codependent parenting is a deal-breaker for me and I would have left if XDH didn't leave first.[/quote]

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