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[quote=Anonymous]DH used to make twice as much as me. He had a flexible job and I did not at all, so he took almost all of the sick days. Then I got a new job and we made the same money, and he still had more flexibility so he continued to do most of the sick days. Now I make twice as much as DH but (finally) have flexibility and DH doesn't. I take almost all of the sick days now. DH and I support one another to minimize each other's stress, and that means letting the one with less job flexibility have fewer unplanned sick days. If you're resentful or even just worried about your job, can you talk to DH about it? He should step up if he is able to, as I would imagine it would help a lot if he could even take even just a few of the sick days.[/quote]
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