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[quote=jjconcern]After reading all the replies to your post and your additional information, I am trying to figure out what your mother and you are trying to accomplish with family therapy by phone that includes you and your father.  It would seem that your mother needs to work out her relationship with him in order to be free to visit her daughter and grandchildren without him if he has no interest in you or your children. It doesn't sound like she has the will or grit to do it and you certainly can't provide it for her on long-distance telephone.  I would voice this to her but if you feel you must go through with the family therapy it would be best to go into it with no expectations but listen respectfully and bring conversation back to mom about what she hopes for and is going to do about the situation rather than what dad is going to do.  He has already made it clear by his actions, words, etc.  The question is "why is mom allowing this type of control in their relationship."  My best to you as you deal with your parent's dysfunctional relationship that spills over into your life.[/quote]

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