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[quote=Anonymous]It completely depends on how you want to spend your week ends. If you want to hang with him and his kids then it's fine. If you want to do your own thing while he hangs with his kids then that might work also. Is he looking for someone to be like a mom to the kids on the weekends? What does he want? 
Also how does he want to handle the dating? It might be hard for him to get a relationship off the ground with no real weekend availability - but this situation could be temporary. if you are looking to be the center of attention this might not be the right guy for you.
FWIW dated a guy who always had the kids on the weekends and I was not thrilled with the situation. I really liked him though and I also have my kids full-time so I hung in there and we saw each other as much as we could, kids and all.  He eventually realized that the custody schedule was not leaving any time for the two of us - not to mention that his kids weren't getting much quality time with their mom. They adjusted their custody arrangement. I pushed my ex to take our kids on alternate weekends (this was our custody arrangement but my ex tended to be unavailable). It all worked out - we are happily married now. Rarely a weekend to ourselves but we are fine with it. 
I don't think my situation would work for everyone but it works for me. It must be true love LOL.[/quote]

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