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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Well, I'm remarried to a man with adult children, and I expect that they will be nice to my elementary-aged son and I during the holidays and when we visit them. But we stay at a hotel so as not to impose on them. If they asked that my son not come for visits, I wouldn't go any more either. What DH did would be up to him but if it resulted in us repeatedly spending multiple holidays apart, we probably wouldn't work out as a family. That being said, I think there's probably a compromise you can reach - e.g. not having them stay with you, not having them come more than one holiday a year.[/quote] Do you realize that your situation is nothing like OPs? Her father's wife does not have small children. Her children are adults with their own kids. In 20 years, your adult step-children may may be OP's situation is you insist on bringing your adult child and your grandchildren to visit your husband's adult child.[/quote]
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