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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think the missing link here is that he doesn't agree with you about what is required to be a parent. He thinks he is parenting. He doesn't agree that your kids need a different kind of parent and yes that's probably because of how he was raised. You can nag and ask and leave him home with the kids and if he doesn't agree with you, he's going to keep doing it his way. The first and critical step is seeing if he's going to change his mind on what it means to be a parent. If he's not going to, then what are you going to do? I see two choices. You just accept it and move on or you leave him. [b] Except in scenario 2, he'll have your kids alone sometimes and parent the way he is currently parenting.[/b] [/quote] I find it hard to believe that a "parent" like this won't simply give up his custody rights and let the mom have sole custody. [/quote]
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