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[quote=Anonymous]Really feel for the OP and others who are struggling with this issue.  I was worried that this dynamic was emerging when we had our DC and what seemed to do the trick was having (a few) come to Jesus conversations about how his attitude was affecting my view of him, and consequently my investment in our relationship. For me, the natural outcome would be either, wanting to get divorced or if I stayed in the marriage, just not having any relationship with him. This got through because prior to having kids, DH and I have been each other's best friends. I think he realized not only would he not have a great relationship with the kid, but the relationship he had with me would evaporate.  That, and we wouldn't have any other kids. Curious what led OP to have DC2 if DH wasn't stepping up when there was just one, but she can at least throw the gauntlet now (though that may not be the stick for her DH that is was for mine).  Happy to report that this worked with DH as he turned around completely and we are better than ever.

Bottom line - this seems like a bigger issue than just parenting - this is about the marriage and life they want to build together (or don't).

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