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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Doesn't really sound like you're looking to have a relationship with the kid, but just want to know if that's what's expected of you.

What's the woman's situation? Does she want you around or are you just a source of income?  Is she in a relationship?[/quote]

Honestly, I posted for outside perspective in response to your first sentence.  I mean, having a kid certainly wasn't something I planned for at this stage of my life nor, specifically, with this person.  I learned a very hard lesson that one should be selective even with regard to ONS.

I don't know what the woman's relationship status is other than that she isn't married or at least her pay stubs didn't indicate that she was although I suppose she could just indicate single on the pay stubs.  It didn't come up in the proceedings whether she was dating or seriously involved with anyone.

[b]I think it's at least partially about the money with her.  She's done a few shady things like trying to bill me for an entire medical bill rather than just the portion not covered by insurance.[/b][/quote]

Yeah, not telling you about the kid until after it's born and trying to squeeze extra money from you signals to me that she thinks you're a piggy bank and not a partner.

Sounds like a tough spot to be in, honestly. [/quote]

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