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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think everyone is being a bit harsh to OP. He's clearly in shock. We don't know how long the mother has kept this from him - shouldn't some responsibility fall on her too? From this account it seems like she wants him just to be a source of income since she couldn't do him the courtesy of notifying him sooner (you know, maybe during the 9 months she was pregnant). Can't have it both ways. [/quote]

He's already been through the court case and caught up on child support arrears.  This isn't new information for him.  He's not in shock, he just doesn't care.[/quote]

OP here.  I've known for a few months so it's somewhat recent.  The child support case went fairly quickly because it's really just a DNA test and then looking at paystubs.  I paid off the arrears in a lump sum because if you're over like $2,500 (less than two months of the amount) they can cancel your passport.

I'm not sure if I would call it shock but I'm mulling what I want to do and what things I should be considering which is why I posted.[/quote]

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