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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know a woman whose husband did this.  She decided she had no reason to give up the financial comforts of her marriage.  She had her husband push for 50% custody right off the bat.  Judge granted visits right away and then overnights once baby was 3 months.  She figured the other woman having to drop off her baby to the home of her ex-lover and his wife of 20 years was pretty delicious retribution.  (Apparently other woman sobbed every time for literally years).  Kid is 10 now and calls the woman "mom"--they have primary custody now.  So I guess there's one example.  [/quote]

I'm sure stories about selling her dignity to keep her standard of living and traumatizing a postpartum mother have made your friend highly admired in your community.[/quote]

Eeeeeeeexactly[/quote]

All bad actors in this scenario. Don't feel sorry for anyone, but speaking as someone whose husband had an affair, the hurt and anger is extreme and long lasting. And yes, common sense aside, women do blame and have absolute contempt for the OW even though it's the DH who did the cheating.  
I can absolutely see her wanting to cause the OW some emotional damage. It's not right or even rational. [/quote]

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