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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know a woman whose husband did this.  She decided she had no reason to give up the financial comforts of her marriage.  She had her husband push for 50% custody right off the bat.  Judge granted visits right away and then overnights once baby was 3 months.  She figured the other woman having to drop off her baby to the home of her ex-lover and his wife of 20 years was pretty delicious retribution.  (Apparently other woman sobbed every time for literally years).  Kid is 10 now and calls the woman "mom"--they have primary custody now.  So I guess there's one example.  [/quote]

I'm sure stories about selling her dignity to keep her standard of living and t[b]raumatizing a postpartum mother [/b]have made your friend highly admired in your community.[/quote]

I don't disagree with your assessment of the wife, but that traumatized woman had a baby with another woman's husband.[/quote]

It's possible that the OW didn't even know he was married. I've had many men approach me although they were married. I'm a little paranoid about this due to a girl in my dorm finding out her BF was married so I always probed or background checked before dating. However, if I had taken the guys at face value (no ring) or on their word, there was no reason to believe they were married. Some men will lie about anything if they think it will get them sex. Some women are naive.[/quote]

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