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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm trying online dating and had a first date last night. The conversation was great, we spent four hours in a snug small plates place with no lulls and lots of laughs coupled with openness on all topics. He has everything I'm looking for but I didn't really feel any sexual desire of any sort. I did in the week or so of messages before we met. I couldn't imagine sleeping with him but for no obvious reasons.

Does this mean move on or try another date? He's very interested and wanted to schedule a second date when we said goodbye. I'm new to dating in general so I'm not sure what to expect or how to gauge this. Anyone have any similar experiences to share? [/quote]

I am genuinely curious how you can have all these things that sound very much like a connection (free-flowing conversation, laughter, openness). What is it that takes for you to get sexually interested?

Is he fat or bald? Or ... poor?[/quote]

Well he was bald but that's not an issue.  He kept talking about his empire but that was more of a turn off.

The issues I think of now - he has multiple cats, he talked about some skin thing he has and how he's used steroid cream long term (supposed to be max two weeks) and I was affixing that's a big deal and can cause lots of problems and he said yeah his skin is thinning.

He's 10 years older than me which hasn't been a problem with sexual desire in the past but was more pronounced with this guy (he really looked it).[/quote]

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