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Reply to ""the victim of the affair is not always the victim of the marriage""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That is very 2015 thinking. Psychologist have done much research since. Marriages are an agreement between 2 adult parties unless it is an arranged marriage or if one is being held hostage. Affairs are not and agreement between 2 people. It is not reasonable to blame somebody for their spouses actions and is a kin to saying: "I wouldn't hit her if she wasn't such a B*tch" or "I drink because he is such a jerk". People need to take responsibility for their own actions. If the marriage sucks end it. But... but... but... I don't want to, plain and simple. For the kids, for the money, for selfishness. It's a choice to stay married. It's a breach of an agreement to have an affair. [/quote] Psychologists have conducted and published "much research" on this topic since 2015? So in two years, they've done the research, published it, and what was true in 2015 is now passé. Okay.[/quote]
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