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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]lads, how would you take it if your wife told you she was attracted to one of her girlfriends that she spends a lot of time with? the other woman being married with children as well and very low probability of anything happening. would you feel threatened? amused/intrigued? indifferent?[/quote] Having done this recently, my DH was intrigued and not threatened. He said he would have felt differently if the attraction was towards a guy, although he couldn't really explain why. However we have a relationship where it's safe to communicate things, even messy, complicated feelings. He thought it meant that I needed something that I wasn't getting already. He didn't exactly object to anything either, just left it open ended. Communicating feelings is different than actions, and really if DW trusts that DH can handle information about messy feelings, I think it indicates that the relationship is on pretty solid ground. [/quote]
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