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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your DH is right, he is doing the right thing. What would be the point of him arguing? Isn't this better for DH's sanity? And obviously, you don't do what she demands/wants. Your DH is a smart guy, who sounds mature and knows what is important and what is fine to let go. You should learn from him.[/quote]

I guess I would just like to have him stand up to her - as in, "We work hard, we're good people, we're trying our best as parents, we're providing our family with what they need and more....we've got this, back off!" Ya know!  But you're right, it wouldn't change anything...she'd just get mad and feign hurt and then keep doing what she does....

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It sounds more like you're upset about the lack of validation YOU get from your MIL than you are about the actual woman and her relationship to DH.

If you'd like to end your marriage, continue to try to damage his relationship with his mom. If you'd like to stay married, follow his lead. It sounds like since there's so many of her wishes you both  haven't succumbed to (no international trip, no kids alone, no nose job), he's doing what needs to be done without cause a war with a 75 year old woman.

I really hope you interact with your family EXACTLY the way your DH wouldl like. Forget that you've known them for 30 years, DH obviously knows better![/quote]

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